Have We Minimized Happiness to a Resolution?

We have entered that time of year where we begin to make commitments to ourselves that better our lives. These commitments are called resolutions. The root word of resolution is resolve. In my mind when I think of resolve I think of a situation in which one has come to terms with some set if particulars. Have we decided that we can only come to terms with life's purpose once a year? I would like to think not. Your life is much to valuable to make singular decisions. We should be making life changing resolutions whenever the time is appropriate. I am more than a resolution. I would like to think that I am my own solution to my predicaments. Don't wait on new year to create a new you. If you wait the opportunity to create a new situation could pass you by. It'sGud to B me, just as it is to be you. Unique, purpose driven and destined for greatness.

You Need to Get Pregnant!

Some of us are moving around this earth in an aimless manner without any fruits to bear or any benefit to mankind. But it is time that you give birth. You need to give birth to that idea, that dream, that vision that is locked inside of you and you've left unconscious and dormant for years. You have given up on hope, sat down on opportunity and fallen asleep on faith. Well it's time to get up and dream again. It's time to live again. It's time to win again. Give that dream or idea a dose of 5 hour energy. Put the defibrillator on the source of that dream and shock it back to life. It can be revived. How can you not allow that gift to be birthed into the universe? The sad part of the matter is that you think that the pregnancy is for you. But your wrong. You were pregnant in the first place for someone else's benefit. What is inside of you is really not for you but it's for someone to be blessed, so that they can bless someone else, so that someone can see a blessing and in turn want a blessing on their life as well. Don't be selfish enough to sit down in a safe place when you need to bold in your blessing and GIVE BIRTH.

Some of us can't give birth because we aren't in putting ourselves in a position to conceive  If nothing that you've surrounded yourself with is fruitful or even has the ability to bear A (singular) fruit, than you are living in a barren land. And you are hanging with barren people. But if when you look around and everyone else is giving birth that means that you are either:

1.Aborting the dream

2. Seem to be sterile

3. Not strong enough to carry the full term

If you can relate to any of the above than I would venture to say that I'm talking about you. You may be hanging with some people who don't want to give birth to anything or maybe you're with some people who are slipping you "birth control pills". But if everything else around you is fertile than it is time that you make a transition because everything else is sinking sand.

No one said birth was easy. There will be pain but the joy that comes from birth outweighs the short lived struggles that you had to endure as that dream grew inside of you. This is a time when it is OK to be a single parent. The dream was given to you. No one else.So why would you put your dream in the hands of someone else? That's your responsibility. It's yours to bear and it's yours to birth. So get ready to conceive. IT SHALL LIVE AND NOT DIE!

Who Stays and Who Goes?

Colossians 2:8 (NKJV) says, Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ.

What a pleasure it is when you are able to find a truly fulfilling relationship. When I speak of relationships, I am not being limiting to romantic encounters. But I speak of any person that you allow to have value in your life. We often surround ourselves with people that make us feel good and its because of that feeling that we give them value. What about that person that is honest from the heart that gives you hard "pills to swallow"? What about that person that comes from a loving place that often does not tell you what you want to hear but what you need to hear? How quickly do we devalue those individuals?
Relationships are not always easy,but they are suppose to help us grow. Life is a process and many of us don't want to take that journey of a adaptability that makes us stronger and better and wiser and smarter and objective and honest. I believe that there is something to be said about pain. It is the process of pain that allows us to produce prosperity. Is not that the ultimate goal? That we be fruitful, not in selfishness, but to allow others to benefit from our gains?
So the relationships that we choose to have could be indicative of the success that we ultimately possess. Be careful of what people speak out their mouth on to your life and in your mind. You have to decide who stays and who goes. I would like to think when opposition goes out one door, opportunity can walk in the other.

EVEM WHEN IT'S BAD IT WILL GET BETTER.

Why do we often wait for things to be at their worse before we try to make them better. It doesn't matter what happens in life we have to he overcomers. But that's just what we are. You.have to believe that in order to battle the negative factors that WILL come. Just be prepared.

Unexpectancy...

It's amazing how some things come into your life. It's even better when that unexpectant event blesses you. I have been a beneficiary of such an event. I take it as a opportunity from above to allow me to experience what's in my future. Don't take anything for granted. Think about the purpose of surprise. It can transition you over your obstacles.

Stupidity....

When you see stupid, look at it and walk away.
-Anita McWater.

How do you change followers into leaders?

It seems in forays society there are few leaders but a multitude of followers. People, especially the youth are so easily led to follow the majority and and can not think or make any decisions for themselves. How do we change this week mindset? What is Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, Sojourner Truth, Frederick Douglass or Maya Angelou were followers? What if they were not free thinkers or courageous, lot willing to do the unthinkable? Where would this world be? We must stop being comfortable with trying to live out life in someone else's skin. It won't fit.
We must pray for our cowardice spirits to be removed and ask for it to be replaced by strength and confidence in who.we were called to be with or without the approval of others.

Today's Lesson

Today I learned that no matter how hard people try to stop you or deter you from achieving your goals, it won't work. Always let your work speak for itself. When you do great things people will recognize it and will seek you out among a crowd. People want to win and surround themselves around winners. That's just what I am.

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I AM ME

In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me Everything that comes out of me is authentically me Because I alone chose it - I own everything about me My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, Whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fanatasies, My dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and Successes, all my failures and mistakes Because I own all of Me, I can become intimately acquainted with me - by so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other Aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am Friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously And hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles And for ways to find out more about me - However I Look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically Me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought And felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is Unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that Which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be Productive to make sense and order out of the world of People and things outside of me - I own me, and therefore I can engineer me - I am me and

I AM OKAY

By Virginal Satir

Pain in purpose

Wouldn't life be so much easier if we knew our purpose. We spend most of our time trying to be happy, successfulr, wealthy, comfortable or just simply trying to find or fulfill our purpose. But why is there so much pain accompanying that process? Is the pain pertinent? My answer is yes. Without the pain we would continue to travel down wrong paths. The pain is just a form of redirection. So I'm thankful for the reasoning of pain although the pain itself may have been uncomfortable but I realize that because of the pain I'm once again headed back in the right direction.

I Choose to Be Happy

I realize that my happiness is up to. I was talking to someone the other day and they said that sometimes they can be upset about something for hours after it happened. Why? I decided a long time ago that I will not allow others to dictate my joy. When you find yourself upset it is just a distracter from you being focused on your goals. No one us worth me forfeiting my plans to engage in anger, bitterness and hatred. I choose to be my best me!